You’ve booked a luau - nice choice. Between the sunset, live music, and fire dancers, it’s one of the most memorable nights in Hawaii.
But once the excitement settles, a familiar question kicks in: What am I supposed to wear?
A luau isn’t about dressing up or dressing down - it’s about finding the sweet spot in between.
You want to look festive and photo-ready, but still feel comfortable enough to sit, eat, walk on grass, and enjoy the show.
This guide breaks it all down so you can stop overthinking and simply enjoy the night.
Table of contents
I. Unlock The Dress Code: What “Luau Attire” Really Means
If this is your first luau, the dress code can feel oddly confusing.
“Aloha Attire” and “Resort Casual” sound official - but no one really explains what you’re supposed to do with that information.
Before you start second-guessing your outfit, let’s clear up what these terms actually look like in real life.
What Is “Aloha Attire” or “Resort Casual”?
At its heart, Aloha attire is relaxed, festive, and thoughtfully put together without feeling stiff or overdressed.
It’s clothing that fits the island setting and still feels right for an evening event.
- For women, that usually means flowy dresses, tropical prints, or breathable fabrics that move easily in the breeze.
- For men, an Aloha shirt or a clean polo paired with shorts or lightweight trousers fits right in. You don’t need to dress up - you just want to look intentional.
What Aloha attire is not:
Formal business wear
Cocktail dresses or suits
Beachwear straight off the sand
A luau may be casual, but it’s still a special occasion - so looking a little more polished goes a long way.
Casual vs. Elevated Casual (Why It Matters)
Here’s where many first-time guests get tripped up: not all luaus feel the same.
Some luaus - especially community-based or beachside ones are very relaxed. Clean, well-fitted clothing in breathable fabrics is more than enough.
If you’d wear it to a nice outdoor dinner, you’re probably on the right track.
Luaus hosted at luxury resorts, on the other hand, tend to lean slightly more polished.
The vibe is still laid-back, but outfits often look more refined, with better fabrics and fewer ultra-casual pieces.
A simple way to think about it: Dress nicer than you would for daytime sightseeing, but nowhere near cocktail attire.
If you’re unsure, a quick scroll through the venue’s Instagram or Yelp photos will usually answer the question instantly.
Once the dress code clicks, picking an outfit stops feeling stressful.
With that in mind, let’s move on to specific outfit ideas - starting with what works best for women who want to look tropical, comfortable, and photo-ready all night.
II. What to Wear to a Luau for Women
For many women, the biggest question before a luau isn’t what’s allowed - it’s what will actually feel right.
You want to look festive, feel comfortable sitting through dinner and a show, and still love how you look in photos.
The good news? Luau outfits are easier than they seem once you know what works best.
Outfit Ideas That Always Work
When in doubt, choose pieces that move easily, breathe well, and feel effortless.
- Maxi dresses: The most popular choice, and for good reason. They’re flowy, flattering, and perfect for warm evenings. Long dresses also protect your legs from mosquitoes and feel comfortable whether you’re seated or walking across grass.
- Rompers and jumpsuits: Another great option if you prefer a more modern look. Just make sure the fabric is lightweight and flexible, especially since you’ll likely be sitting for long stretches during the show.
In terms of colors and patterns: tropical prints, soft florals, warm neutrals, and sunset tones all photograph beautifully without feeling costume-like.
The Flower Rule (A Fun Local Accesories)
If you plan to wear a flower in your hair - fresh or faux, there’s a small cultural detail worth knowing.
- Wearing a flower behind your right ear traditionally means you’re single or “looking.”
- A signal behind your left ear means you’re taken or married.
It’s not a strict rule, but locals recognize it, and it’s a fun way to add a thoughtful island touch to your outfit.
Shoes That Make the Night Easy
Footwear can make or break your luau experience.
- High heels: especially stilettos, don’t mix well with grass, sand, or uneven walkways. Even if you make it through the entrance, standing or walking later can quickly become uncomfortable.
- Flat sandals are the safest choice. Wedges are also popular if you want a bit of height without sinking into the ground. The goal is stability and comfort; no one wants to worry about their shoes while enjoying the show.
Once your outfit feels right, the rest of the evening becomes easy; you’re free to relax, eat, and enjoy the performance without fussing over your clothes.
Let’s look at what works best for men and how to elevate a simple island look without overdoing it.
III. What to Wear to a Luau for Men
For men, luau style is refreshingly simple - but that doesn’t mean you should roll in wearing anything.
The goal isn’t to dress up; it’s to look clean, comfortable, and intentional.
With a few easy choices, you can fit right in without feeling stiff or underdressed.
The Shirt: Where the Look Comes Together
If there’s one piece that defines a luau outfit, it’s the shirt.
- An Aloha shirt is always the safest and most fitting choice.
- Look for breathable fabrics like cotton or rayon and patterns that feel tropical without being loud.
- Authentic Aloha shirts often have small details like matched pockets or coconut buttons - that make them feel polished rather than touristy.
If you don’t have an Aloha shirt, a solid-color polo works just fine, especially for more upscale resort luaus.
What you want to avoid are old graphic tees or beach-worn shirts, which tend to look too casual for an evening event.
Bottoms: Easy, Comfortable, and Practical
When it comes to pants or shorts, comfort matters more than trends.
- Khaki or chino shorts are the most common choice and work at almost any luau. They’re breathable, easy to sit in, and look put-together without trying too hard.
If you’re worried about cooler temperatures later in the evening, lightweight trousers such as linen or thin cotton are a great option.
They feel relaxed but slightly more refined, especially at resort-hosted luaus.
Footwear: The Local Upgrade Most Visitors Miss
Shoes are where many visitors accidentally downgrade their outfit.
- Rubber flip-flops are acceptable, but locals often opt for leather sandals, sometimes called “going-out slippahs”.
- They’re just as comfortable, but look far more polished - perfect for an evening event on grass or stone pathways.
- Closed-toe shoes aren’t required, but if you prefer them, choose something lightweight and breathable rather than bulky sneakers.
That’s really all it takes. With a clean shirt, comfortable bottoms, and practical footwear, you’ll look right at home at any luau.
Optional Accessories for Men
Keep accessories minimal - just enough to elevate the look without overdoing it.
Leather belt: Works best with khaki shorts or lightweight trousers.
Watch (water-resistant): Practical and polished for an outdoor evening.
Sunglasses: Useful before sunset, but easy to tuck away once the show begins.
Light hat or cap: Optional for early arrivals, especially at outdoor venues.
Less is more here. A luau look should feel relaxed, not styled.
Now, let’s dive into what families and kids can wear, so everyone stays comfortable from sunset all the way to the final fire dance.
IV. What to Wear to a Luau for Families & Kids
Luaus are one of the most family-friendly experiences in Hawaii, and kids are always welcome.
When dressing little ones (and yourselves), the goal is simple: keep everyone comfortable, happy, and able to sit through dinner and a long show without meltdowns.
Luckily, luau outfits for families don’t need to be complicated.
The “Matching Outfit” Trend (Optional but Fun)
You’ll notice many families at luaus wearing coordinated outfits matching Aloha prints, similar colors, or complementary patterns.
This isn’t required, but it’s popular for a reason: luaus are prime photo moments, and matching outfits make great keepsakes or holiday cards.
If you like the idea, keep it subtle. Matching colors or prints works better than identical head-to-toe outfits, especially for kids.
What Kids Should Wear (Comfort Comes First)
For children, breathable fabrics are key. Cotton or lightweight blends help keep them cool while sitting, eating, and watching the performance.
Loose dresses, shorts, and soft tops work best, nothing stiff, tight, or itchy. Many luaus last a few hours, and kids tend to spend a lot of time sitting, so comfort matters more than style.
A light layer is also a good idea. Evenings can get breezy, especially if the luau is near the ocean.
Shoes & Small Details Parents Appreciate
When it comes to kids at a luau, small details can make a big difference.
Comfortable choices help them sit, move around, and enjoy the night without fuss.
Comfortable sandals or sneakers: Closed-toe shoes aren’t required, but supportive footwear works best for kids who like to move around.
Broken-in shoes: Avoid brand-new footwear that could rub or cause blisters during the evening.
Bug spray: Especially helpful for luaus held on grass and for younger kids who are more sensitive to bites.
Light jacket or hoodie: Evenings can cool down quickly once the sun sets, particularly near the ocean.
With a few thoughtful choices, dressing kids for a luau can be easy, and even fun.
Once everyone is comfortable and settled, you’re free to enjoy the food, music, and show together.
Let’s go over what not to wear, so you can avoid the most common mistakes visitors make at luaus.
V. What NOT to Wear to a Luau
Luaus are relaxed, but that doesn’t mean anything goes.
A few outfit choices can make the night less comfortable or leave you feeling a bit out of place.
The good news? Most mistakes are easy to avoid once you know what to skip.
- Swimwear: Luau is an evening event, not a beach day. Even if it’s at a resort, showing up in a swimsuit feels unfinished
- Plastic grass skirts or “costume” outfits: Coconut bras, novelty leis, or party-store outfits. These look more like costumes than cultural appreciation, pretty disrespectful.
- Overly casual clothes: Board shorts, tank tops, or old graphic tees. Comfortable, yes - but usually too casual for the setting.
- High heels or unstable shoes: Grass, sand, and uneven paths don’t mix well with heels. And after a couple of Mai Tais, balance becomes even harder 😅
- Heavy makeup or over-styled looks: Heat, humidity, and ocean breezes do their thing quickly. Simple, natural looks tend to last longer and feel better
Avoiding these common missteps keeps the night fun, easy, and stress-free.
With the outfit worries out of the way, you can focus on enjoying the food, music, and show.
Before you head out, here are a few things to bring along for a smooth, stress‑free luau night.
VI. Practical Packing List for Luau Night
Your outfit might be sorted, but a few small extras can turn a good luau night into a great one. Since most luaus take place outdoors and last a few hours, these simple items can help you avoid getting cold, itchy, or stressed halfway through the show.
Light jacket or cardigan
Bug spray
Small bag or crossbody
Portable charger
Hair tie or clip
With these essentials covered, you’re fully set for a smooth, comfortable luau night.
All that’s left now is to enjoy the food, music, and unforgettable atmosphere, without worrying about what you forgot to pack.
Dress Easy, Enjoy the Night
A luau isn’t about dressing perfectly - it’s about feeling comfortable enough to enjoy every moment.
When your outfit feels right, you stop thinking about what you’re wearing and start soaking in the music, the food, and the energy of the night.
Stick to breathable fabrics, practical shoes, and a look that feels relaxed but intentional. That balance is what Aloha style is really about.
Once you’ve got that down, everything else, sunset photos, fire dancers, and unforgettable memories, falls into place naturally.
So pick an outfit that lets you move, sit, eat, and smile with ease. The less you fuss over what you’re wearing, the more you’ll enjoy the experience itself 🌺
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to dress up for a luau?
Not really. Luaus are relaxed by nature, even at upscale resorts. You don’t need formalwear—just aim for a clean, comfortable outfit that looks intentional rather than beach-only or overly casual.
Can I wear jeans to a luau?
Yes, but lightweight pants are a better choice. Jeans can feel heavy and warm in the evening humidity, especially if you’re sitting for a long time during dinner and the show.
Are closed-toe shoes required at a luau?
No. Sandals are perfectly acceptable at most luaus. Just make sure they’re comfortable and stable, since many venues have grass, sand, or uneven paths.
What colors photograph best at a luau?
Soft tropical colors, florals, neutrals, and warm sunset tones tend to photograph beautifully. Very dark colors or overly bright neon shades can feel out of place in photos.
Kaimana Olopua
Indigenous Creative Director at Pacific Fashion CollectiveI am Kaimana Olopua. My creative vision was sharpened at the University of Auckland, where I learned to weave the stories of our ancestors into the fabric of modern design. For me, fashion is a powerful reclamation of identity. I take immense pride in elevating our traditional textiles onto the global stage, proving that Polynesian style is not just a trend, but a timeless statement of indigenous power.